The Moral Dilema

To be honest or not?

On one hand I could say, "Those are the ugliest pants I've ever seen and it drives me nuts everytime you wear them!"

On the other hand, I like my friend and she likes her pants and I wouldn't hurt her feelings like that.

On one hand I could say, "You know, if you're going to schedule a maintence check at least show up on the day that you schedule it. It really annoys me that I have to continue to wear all my clothing (including a bra) for an extra four hours, only to find that it is getting late & I have been stood up!!"
On the other hand, I like my housing director & my maintence guy. I like having things fixed in my apartment. I like that they like me & therefore don't cause me any undue grief over minor things.


On one hand I could say, "To hell with you people! You're all a bunch of childish assholes and I can't believe that I am actually related to you shitheads! Grow the F#$% UP!!"
On the other hand, I love my family and 90% of the time we have a pretty good time when we all get together.


So you see, I have this moral dilema. On one hand there is this "generally" honest person who doesn't usually have a problem speaking her mind. On the other hand, being 100% honest 100% of the time could make my life very miserable in the long run.


In my next life I want to be a mayfly. No moral dilema's there. You're born, you get laid, you have a kid, you die... all in a matter of days! No time for drama, moral dilemas or contemplating how to be the "better" mayfly. Just mind-boggling, die happy, SEX!